Joseph Anthony Williams III, 74 was called to heaven, surrounded by his family, on December 19, 2015. He was born in New Haven on June 18, 1941 to the late Joseph A. Williams Jr. and Helen (DeAngelis) Williams. In addition to his beloved wife Barbara, he is survived by his loving daughters Lisa Williams and Kelly Williams Suplinskas; his son-in-law Alan Suplinskas; his grandchildren Lauren and Gregory; his sister Anne Marie Duffy and her husband William; his brother Richard Williams and his wife Gail; and his sister-in-law Theresann Baxter; and several cousins, nieces and nephews. Affectionately known as “Joe Bananas”, “Poppy” and “J. Anthony”, Joe was a man with a gentle and generous heart who was dedicated to his loving family. He started work at a young age, helping his father in the banana business. He later became the proprietor of J. Williams Jr. Co, a wholesale banana distribution business, and for 35 years he worked tirelessly building his business. Joe was a real estate investor and with his wife Barbara, bought, restored and sold many properties in his lifetime. Throughout his life, he was a passionate car enthusiast who had a thirst for speed and an obsession for new wheels every few years. Joe enjoyed boating and lovingly named one of his favorites “Barbara-Pauline” after his wife of 55 years. Joe loved racing cars in his younger years, a fine cigar, classic old movies, his cozy beach house and always referred to his home as his castle. He loved his wife’s Italian cooking and cookies, reclining in his chair under the warm sun, spending time with and spoiling his family and sitting on his porch rocker watching his green grass grow into a perfectly manicured lawn. Joe loved music and in his later years he found his true voice and started singing love songs and ballads and recorded more than 50 CDs, all known as “Beautiful Music by J. Anthony. Mostly, Joe cherished his wife Barbara, his two daughters and his grandchildren. He was forever young at heart, optimistic, witty, wise, generous, caring, sentimental, and deeply dedicated to his loved ones, friends, and dog Holly. He will be forever loved and missed by all who knew and loved him for the special man he was. Keep singing your beautiful music our beloved J. Anthony so we can hear your sweet voice from Heaven.
His family will receive relatives and friends in the North Haven Funeral Home, 36 Washington Avenue on Sunday, December 27th from 3 to 6 p.m. His funeral procession will leave the North Haven Funeral Home Monday morning, December 28th at 9:30. A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated in Church of the Resurrection, 115 Pond Hill Road, Wallingford at 10:00 am. Interment will be private and at the convenience of the family. In Lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in his memory may be made to ASCPA (American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals) www.aspcaorg/donate.
My Dear Dad, today is 8 months since you departed and our lives changed forever. I just want to see you, touch you, talk to you and hear your laughter and you fatherly advice and every single thing that made you the most special father in the world. I love and miss you every second, and my heart expands like the universe with the love and longing I have for you wishing you were here today, tomorrow and always. I can only pray you are at peace and have a knowing of how much you are loved and missed every second. I listen to your songs every day, to keep you close to me. They are so comforting, but will never replace having your beautiful presence in my life. God Rest your soul of love and light. You were and will always be my Love and Light. I love you eternally. XOXOXO
My Dear Dad, today is 9 months, so very hard to believe, since we said Goodbye to you. I still cannot believe you are gone, and feel you alive in my heart and soul every second. Death changes everything ~ time changes nothing. We are not the same without you here and life is so profoundly sad and so very different now. I see your loving smile in every picture, I hear your voice in every song, and I wish I could just talk to you again, and hug you and never let you go. I keep searching for the truth, and pray that you are at peace and in eternal light and love surrounded by God and every loved one that has left this world and that the your Angel is watching over us all until the day we meet again. I love and miss you with every cell in my being. Love your Daughter Lisa. XOXOXO
My Dear Dad, today is 300 days since I said goodbye to the most loving and beautiful man in my life. I still cannot believe that you are gone. My mind and heart will not accept it, you are on my mind every minute, and I feel you close in my heart. I had a dream that you answered the home phone and said “Hi Auntie” like you always did, and it seemed so real. I said “Dad, you are freaking me out, I thought you were gone” and you said I come back every once in awhile to check on things. Your voice was so happy, just like I remember. Tomorrow is your 56th Wedding Anniversary, and it will be the first time you will not be able to tell mom how much you adore and love her, and share this most special day with the love of your life, and I know this will be a very hard day for her and us, but I know you love her eternally and you are with her always, watching over her. She will always be your Special Angel. Til death do you part was not long enough, you will always be her husband and love and she forever your wife and love, eternally. I love and miss you more and more every day, I wish I could hug you and tell you how much I love you and never let you go. We will play your beautiful songs of devotion for mom tomorrow, the songs you danced to on you wedding day and all the days you were blessed to share together. I love you Dad. XOXOXO
My Dear Dad, today is 11 months we said goodbye to the love and light in our lives. You are on my mind and in my heart constantly, and I listen to your recordings, voicemails, and songs every day. I would be lost without hearing your voice, and I reflect on the most beautiful, loving, kind, sentimental father you always were. The holidays are upon us and Thanksgiving was the last family holiday we got to celebrate with you, it is so unfair that you were taken right before Christmas and we never got to watch you open your gifts and celebrate giving and love in your presence. I still cannot believe you are gone, my heart will not let me, you are alive eternally and I am forever blessed with your unconditional love. I miss you deeply and pray you are at peace and resting in the warmest embrace of eternal love. XOXOXO
So sorry for your loss. Joe was a great man and he will be missed.
I offer my deepest condolences for your loss. May his undying love comfort you at this time. Prayers to you all.
A lifelong friend that will be missed dearly! As long back as I can remember, I always knew you as a kind and gentle soul. Never a harsh word from your mouth, always had something good to say. You made everyone around you happy, and you always made me laugh growing up. You are definitely gonna have a great seat in Heaven! Next to the father… Forever!
I'm so sorry for your loss
Barbara we are so sorry for your lost we enjoy him at all the gathering he will be in are hearts forever.
So sorry to hear this sad news. We have meet several times thru Marguerite and Uncle Ed. Always remember your kind smile and heart. Barbara and The family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Our deepest condolences to the Williams Family. We are dearly saddened by the loss of our dear friend. Our prayers are with you Barb and your family. I'm sure he's singing up a storm! Love you
Mickey & Milton
A man that we will never forget, a very loving and compassionate friend. we will never forget the memories and fun and chuckles we have had with Joe and Bobby – vacations we had together, races we had together, Ferrari craziness we shared, truly good friends. We will always remember the good times and never forget Joe. Rest in Peace my friend, may the angels always watch over you. Our love.
Whenever I saw Joe, he had a warm smile and cheerful conversation. He always made me feel as though seeing me made his day better, and I am certain that he gave this gift to all who encountered him. I will miss him in our little neighborhood at Old Kelsey Point. My sincerest prayers for peace and understanding are with his loved ones at this time of tremendous loss.
to all of you ,you are a special family and our deepest sympathies and prayers are with you!God Bless.
So very sorry for your unimaginable loss. My heart is with you guys!
All my love,
Nicole Bartolotta
We were shocked and saddened to learn of your tragic loss. He was a truly wonderful person who will be missed by all that knew him. A gentle and loving soul who cherished his family and friends. It was fun to see what new set of wheels he was driving when he came by the office to see Lisa. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
My heart s with all in our family who loved you so dearly. You never forgot a holiday, you never judged, you never didn't welcome with open heart and arms. You made me feel special and loved every time you called me Kristina Bostivina. It fills me with sadness that I will never hear that silly nickname from your lips again. You will be very missed Uncle Joe. You are already.
We will forever miss your sweet smiling face! All our Love
Rose & Sal
So sorry for your loss Kelly, Barbara and family. Maria Tomei (Dr. Pantera's office)
Please accept our condolences at the passing of your Dad. Through our many conversations with you about your Dad, he was a wonderful, loving, caring, family man. My heart goes out to you and your entire family. God bless each and everyone of you
Angela, Greg, Gregory, and Christopher Gerzabek
We were blessed to know Joe. May God keep you in his arms at this time. We love you!
"Little Joe" as Auntie Helen used to call him. My deepest sympathies to his wonderful family. Words cannot express my sadness.
May the fond memories live on. Our entire family wishes to pass our heart felt condolences to your family. Our prayers and thoughts are with.
I knew Joe and his wonderful family for many years, working as a contractor on many, many jobs. Joe was a great friend, someone I sat with many times in the rocking chairs at the beach house and discussed all facets of life with. I was truly stunned at his passing because I never saw anything but a smile on his face and laughter in his heart. We talked for hours about cars, stocks, music – you name it, he was the proverbial "Everyman". I will miss him terribly, and I can't even imagine the loss Barbara, Kelly, Lisa and the rest of his extended family must feel. He is singing in a different place now, and I'm sure all of his songs are perfectly on key. I am truly saddened by the loss of a wonderful friend.
To Barbara & Family: We will remember Joe for his pleasant and gentlemanly ways. He was always engaging, interested in what others were doing and projected friendship and warmth. We will cherish his memory and his music.XO
Joe was a neighbor at the beach. We shared emails, talked politics, cars and business experiences, both his and mine. We had much in common among these subjects. Fran and I will miss your warm greetings, smile and your baritone voice. The J. Anthony recordings of you singing will bring us joy for years to come. God Bless you and your family.
There are no words to describe our sadness .We are thinking of you Barbara,
how he never wanted to be away from you and your family and how much he loved them especially his grandchildren.He was enjoying his life so with his music .We will miss him so much .We love you Barbara and pray for you and your family.As for us we will always have his music. God Bless you and your Family.
Dear Williams family. We are so sorry to hear about Joe. Our prayers are with you Barbara and your wonderful FAM{LY. He was a dear friend that we loved.
We are very sorry for your loss and send our heartfelt condolences. Joe was one of a kind, a gentlemen in all respects. He will be missed.
Dear Lisa:
I know this is a bad time for you. I called your phone #NA & called Barbara's Phone #NA
Please give me a CALL 410-360-1098 I'm so sorry about Your DAD. God Bless
Love
Ronnie Dove
Dead Lisa Or Barbara I am so sorry about your DAD.
I called 806-767-9078 NA then I called 806-399-0040 NA
Love Always
Ronnie Dove 410-360-1098
So sorry for your loss. Joe was such a kind hearted person. I am going to miss driving by him in my mail truck. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Dear Dad, Merry Christmas in Heaven. We miss and love you dearly. Christmas will never be the same without you here beside us. We are playing your songs and you sweet voice is soothing us and filling the air. We pray you are resting in eternal peace with the Angels and in God's warm and loving embrace. XOXOXO Forever.
We will always remember you Uncle Joe…. Sing your heart out amoungst the angels, we love you, Dallas & Dana
I'm so very sorry for your loss.. Joe was a true inspiration to me and I'm sure to everyone he met.. If I know joe he is smiling down upon all of you right now and is definitely being asked to slow down in his latest sports car in heaven! I will truly miss him, I already do !!
Dear Barbara and family. I am so sad as I write this message. I'm thankful that Joe and I were able to reconnect a couple of years ago. He was such a special person and I loved talking to him about our earlier days, parties, high school and working with him on the banana truck. May he rest in peace.
So sorry for your loss. Gone to soon. My sincere and heartfelt condolences
Darling Barbara & family. We are thinking of you & wishing the miles were not keeping us apart.
As you celebrate the beautiful life of our beloved Joe, know that we, too, are thinking of all the times we have shared, joyful & sad, together. Our laughter & tears bind us in love & will always be a part of us. Joe was our pathfinder to seeing life to its fullest in new & wonderful ways! He is greatly loved & greatly missed. But he was not ours; and now, returned to his Father, to sing for all eternity.
We love you all dearly. Janice & the Captain
We offer our deepest sympathy and heartfelt prayers to Joseph's entire family – especially to his daughter and our friend, Kelly. May he rest in peace. May our Lord comfort and guide his loving family.
Dear Dad,
I miss you immensely. I pray you are at peace and you are enveloped in eternal love and warmth. I so wish I were able to say I love you one last time and goodbye to you before you departed. You are forever in my heart.
Dad, I am missing you more and more each day, this is so unbearable, my heart breaks without you here to see, hear, hug, love. I pray you are resting in the warm heavenly light, puffing on your cigar, and singing your beautiful love songs. I still can't believe you are gone. Endless tears, flood of memories, love you forever and ever. Your Daughter Lisa XOXOXOXO
Listening to your beautiful song "Too Young" by Nat King Cole. So lovely dad. You were too young to leave us. You should still be here with us. Our hearts will long for you forever. XOXOXO
Dearest Dad, today is 50 days without your beautiful presence in my live. I count the seconds until somehow, somewhere, someday we are together again. Life here is unbearable without you. I miss you constantly and pray you are at peace and waiting for your loved ones left behind. I love you to the moon, to the stars, through the universe and all time infinitum. XOXOXOXO
My Beloved Dad, today is 2 months since your beautiful soul was carried to Heaven. The days blur together, it feels like yesterday, yet an eternity. I miss and love you so much and pray you are bathed in pure light, peace and joy. I listen to your beautiful love songs every day. Phil sings his "Missing Joe" song at his gigs and will be performing right in town on Sunday at his new radio show which I am attending. I love you endlessly and wish you were here to hug so tight and feel your warmth. You are my Angel. XOXOXO
Dear Beloved Dad, Today is 74 days since you left us. God gave you 74 beautiful years of live but 74 days without your warm loving presence feels like an eternity. I think about you and miss you constantly and I know that as the days turn to months and years, I will never lose the special connection I have to you and all the love that pours out of my heart like an eternal fountain of love. I love you Dad. XOXO
Dearest Dad, Today is it 3 months since the angels carried you away on their wings. I love and miss you more every moment and cherish every memory I keep of you close in my heart to relive over and over. I have been keeping a running journal of thoughts and memories of every little thing that made you the Dad I love so much. As I keep listening to your songs I feel like you are right next to me and I wish I could touch you and hold you close again. I love you to the moon, the stars, the sun, the universe, infinitum. Save me a dream. XOXOXOXO Love Daughter Lisa
Dear Dad, 100 Days ago today, my heart was broken and my tears have not stopped. I miss you more and more every minute, hour, day. Time has stood still since that day, yet it feels like eternity since I saw your beautiful presence, felt the warmth of your smile and hugs. Life will never ever be the way it was when you were here with us, and I still cannot comprehend it. You were my guiding light and I am lost in darkness now trying to find my way. I want the world I used to know back, but it is gone forever. I love and miss you to the end of time. Love your #1 Daughter.
Dearest Dad, Today is April 19, 2016 My 55th birthday and 4 months since the Angels took you away on their wings. You would be so happy and proud to know that I am here at Phil's studio where you spent so many hours recording your beautiful songs which I listen to everyday, the last CD being Vol #54. I am singing to you today, to express how much I love and miss you. The few songs I selected are ones you enjoyed in years past, and one of your favorites, My Special Angel that you dedicated to mom all of your life, has a new and deeper meaning since you are now my Angel. I wish you were here with me today. I hope you can hear me singing from your Heavenly home. You are Alive in my Heart Eternally. Love your Daughter, Lisa. XO
Today is 5 months since I said Goodbye to you Dad. I miss you more and more every day, and I am still trying to comprehend why God took you away from us too soon. You should still be with us living the life you loved so much and with all who love you more than you can ever imagine. Life has lost its meaning since you departed. The beautiful pictures of you and your sweet songs, are just not enough to mend my broken heart. I will love and miss you until the end of time. Love your Daughter Lisa. XOXO
Dearest Dad ~ Happy 75th Birthday to Your Beautiful Soul in Heaven, I love and miss you so very much. If I could have one wish today June 18, 2016, it would be for you to be returned from Heaven to be with us who love and miss you endlessly. You were 74 and a half and a day, when the Angels came and swept you away. Today you would have turned 75, and in my heart you are forever alive. I hope you are resting in eternal grace, peace and light. I celebrate and honor your beautiful life and your everlasting memory, today and every day. Tomorrow June 19, 2016, is Father's Day and 6 months since you departed. This first Birthday and Father's Day without your loving light and presence will be the second hardest day of my life. The hardest day of my life was the day we said Goodbye to you. I love you eternally. I will fill the air today with your beautiful songs and the aroma of your favorite cigar. God Bless You for being the most Wonderful Father in the world. Your Loving Daughter, Lisa
Dearest Dad, It's July 4th and a "Banner Day" as you would always say here at your earthly home. I have been looking at the empty flagpole for months, trying to find someone to replace the ropes so we can raise the flag again as I know how much pride you took in doing this to see Old Glory waving in the wind. I keep searching for you in the sparkling sea, looking for you in the puffy white clouds, and every once in a while, a wisp of clouds forms into the shape of an angel or heart. I keep hoping it is you, sending a sign from Heaven. I miss and love you so very much and miss all the beautiful noise that poured out of your earthly being and filled our lives with so much meaning. Someday we will meet again and I will never, ever let you go. XOXOXO
Happy New Year in Heaven Dad Jan 1, 2017. I still can’t believe you are gone – 380 days today. The days blur together, and time feels like it stands still, even though it moves on. Nothing is the same without you. I miss you and love you with every beat of my heart. XOXO
June 18, 2017
My Dearest Dad
There is not a day that goes by that I don’t think of you
and laugh
or cry
or both.
I miss your loving presence and sunny smile.
I celebrate you every day
and treasure your everlasting memory.
I love you beyond the stars, through the universe, to infinitum.
Nearly one and a half years since we said Goodbye to you
Time passes so quickly, yet it feels like yesterday, and forever
since you were carried away.
Happy 76th Birthday and Happy Father’s Day.
I wish I could put my arms around you to hug you
and tell you how very much I love and miss you…
Always and Forever.
XOXOXOXOXOXOXO
Dear Dad, Today is your 57th wedding anniversary and I wish you were here to kiss and hug mom, the woman and bride you loved and adored for all your days. We miss you endlessly and life is so very different and incomplete without your beautiful presence. We treasure every memory of you we hold in our hearts. The only thing I know with certainty is that death cannot separate people from Love. In the end, Love is stronger than death. Love Never dies. I love you eternally. XOXO
My Beloved Dad, Dec 19, 2017 is 2 days away… Two years since your beautiful soul departed. Life has never been the same and I long for you every moment. It is so difficult for me to comprehend that I have not seen your beautiful smiling face, except when I admire photos of you, or heard your encouraging, loving, happy voice, but for when I listen to your beautiful J Anthony songs. I miss your loving warmth, your strong embraces, the light that you emitted to guide me. I reflect on every precious memory I hold of you in my heart and would give anything to have you back in this earthly life. You were too young to be taken away, and had so much life force left inside you. I pray you are at peace and somehow have a knowing of how very much you are loved and missed by me and so many who love you. When I close my eyes, I see you. When I open my eyes, I miss you. Always and forever eternally yours. XOXO
My Dearest Dad, Father, Best Friend, how I love and miss you more and more each day. Happy Father’s Day and Happy 77th Birthday, It is so hard to believe it has been two and a half years since I said goodbye to you. You are on my mind and in my heart every moment. When you were here, everything was right, and no matter hard some things were, you always made it right. You are my hero, my guiding light, my Angel. Life will never be the way it was when you were here filling my heart with your neverending love and warmth. I have a beautiful coral rose bush to plant tomorrow like I do every year to honor your memory. I would give anything to have one more time to see you, hug you, and tell you how much I love and miss you. Thank you for being the most caring, loving, kind, sweet, gentle, funny man, father and friend who made all the difference in my life. I send you my love and prayers and hope you are soaring high and free, with love and music as your gentle wind. I love you until the end of time. XOXOXOXOX
Dearest Dad, It is so hard to believe today is 3 years since we had to say goodbye to you, the brightest most loving light in our lives. Life is so very different and will never be the same. I miss the me I used to be when you were by my side and always leading me with your guiding light. This will be our 4th Christmas without you. Christmastime used to be our happiest time of year, feeling blessed to be alive to share, love and celebrate with each other and all our beloved family members. Those days are gone forever, but I keep the warmest memories of every moment we had you in our lives alive in my heart. I reflect on your beautiful memory every day, gaze at every picture of you that remains, and listen to your soothing beautiful voice singing with all of your heart, all the songs you recorded and left to us as your legacy. These are never ever enough, but I treasure every single thing that reminds me of you, for that is all I have, and the everlasting memories I have of the most beautiful, loving, gentle, sweet Father in the world. I miss you more than ever. I pray that someday we will find each other in the star lit Heavens and live on eternally in soul and spirit together. Love is the only thing. Love always wins. I Love you Dear Dad. XOXOXO