Francis “Tommy†Almeida, 73, of Durham, passed away on Wednesday, January 9, 2013. Tommy was born in New Haven on March 24, 1939; son of the late Frank and Stephanie Naysnerski Almeida; served his country faithfully in the U.S. Army; was a member of the Teamsters Local #443; was the owner and operator of the former Almeida Towing for over twenty years; was a twenty year member and past champion of the CT Tractor Pullers Association and was a boxing enthusiast. Father of Carol Ann (Aurelio) Fontanarosa, Christine (Wayne) Barton, Dawne (John Halligan) Almeida, Nicole Herb and her fiancé David DeLellis, Stephanie Almeida and her fiancé Brendan Hummel. Grandfather of Joseph, Anthony, Jacob, Ricki Lynn, Noelle and Madisyn. Brother of Mary Ann German, Benjamin (Maureen) Trajeski and Mary Dotson. Former husband of Carol Wiser and Deborah Frano. Godfather of A.J. Gagliardi. Best friend of Donald Clark. Also survived by nieces, nephews and his beloved dog “Buggaâ€.
Funeral services will be conducted in the North Haven Funeral Home, 36 Washington Avenue, Tuesday evening January 15th at 7:00. Family and friends may call from 3:00 pm until time of service on Tuesday. Interment will be private and at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Meriden Humane Society, 311 Murdock Ave., Meriden, CT 06450.
My sincerest sympathy goes out to the friends and family of Francis. It is such a difficult thing to deal with the loss of such a loving father who was so loved by many . As time goes by, you will begin to realize that as you think of his smiles, his love of his family, his laughter, the pain will have diminished a bit and you’ll find yourself smiling again. I didn’t know him personally but, having lost someone dear to me, I can empathize with the pain you have and are experiencing. What comfort such scriptures as John 5:28,29 brought me! You will read there about the promise Jesus gave of resurrecting our loved ones back to life. When he resurrected His friend Lazarus back to life ( John 11:38-44 ) He showed his ability and desire to fulfill that promise. Can you just imagine the joy Lazarus’ sisters felt when they held him in their arms once again? This joy we too will feel in the very near future. Until that day comes, we have the promise that God will draw close to those whose hearts have been broken ( Psalms 34:18 ) I truly hope these few scriptures have helped lessen the pain you feel as they had mine.
Uncle frank you loved me like a son and I loved you like a father. I liked coming to the barn to work on the car but loved being there knowing that YOUR big hug and a kiss was waiting for me. That hug reminded me that no matter what, you were always going to be there for me. Even though you are no longer here physically, I will always carry you everywhere I go, trying to live up to person you were and always wanted me to become. Thank you for some of the best memories of my life
Love you daddy
Daddy, I hope you know how much I love you…I will miss you everyday, and it breaks my heart that you won’t be here to walk me down the aisle next September. I am so fortunate to have been raised by the most wonderful father in the world, and I will never forget how good you were to me. I will continue to try and make you proud papa bear, and each time I hear “I Just Called to Say I Love You”, I’ll know you’re visiting me. I miss you, and I love YOU more. Your little girl, Steffy <3.
Although we lose the people that our dearest in our lives, they will always be close in our hearts and memories. Nicholas and I are very sorry for your loss.
Frank, time will never erase the fun we had together. I will miss you so much,
words cannot describe the grief, I promise to take care of your daughters and grandchildren as long ad there is breath in my body. Godspeed dude, I’ll be seeing you again.
You son-in-law,
Wayne
My prayers are with all of you. Your Dad was a very special man and I’m honored to have had him in my life. He will missed very much. RIP Frank. Love Bunny
My heart goes out to all of his family. I have known Frank since I was a younger girl and when he was married to Deb Frano. Frank and Deb always made my younger sister(Joyce) and I part of their family..Frank was always my setback (card game) partner in crime. We always beat Debs and Joyce. Now I’d like to think he is with Joyce in Heaven playing this card game. I will miss you Franks..I love you very much. RIP my wonderful friend xx Annie
So sorry for your loss. Frank was a wonderful man and will be dearly missed.
Sadly missed & Never forgotten> We send our condolences to the family. RIP .
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Although I didn’t know Francis, I know he raised a wonderfully caring and generous family. May he rest in peace and my you all find peace during this sorrowful time.
Sincerely,
Donna Louisa
Hi Chrissy, so sorry for you loss, losing a father is so difficult to us girls – stay strong, we are thinking of you and your family. Tony, Marie & boys
From what I have heard he was a amazing man and will be missed. Our thoughts and prayer are with you all. God bless
my most sincerest sympathy to you and your family may he rest in peace
There are no words that we can speak that will ease your pain. We are deeply sorry for your loss. Just try to hold on to all the good memories that you have of your dad. He will always be in your hearts. If there is anything we can do to help please don’t hesitate to let us know. God Bless you all. Love, Ralph and Anna Cuomo (from Dad’s restaurant)
Dawne and family, very sorry for your loss, if you need anything please dont hesitate to call. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Just remember you now have a wonderful guardian angel beside you. Love you!
Dearest Chrissy and family, we are so sorry for the loss of your dad and grandfather. Please know we love you and you are in our hearts, minds and souls during this time.
love, sam and liz
Sorry about y’all’s lost.
I can’t even begin to put into words how much I miss you. You were invincible in my eyes and I can only hope that I can be half the man, friend and father you were. You treated me like a son and I can’t thank you enough for that privilege. Thank you for granting me the honor of spending the rest of my life with your daughter. I promise to treat her like the princess you always treated her as. You set the bar high and I will strive every day to make you proud of the way I treat her. I wish you would be there to give her away on our wedding day but I know you will still be there in spirit (and pretending to pull her back with that trademark smirk of yours). You will always be in my heart and you will always be my best friend. We will always love you.
-Chowdahead, Hummel Brothers and any other nicknames you had for me. (Brendan)
Sometimes in the life there are no words you can say,but memory can speak for it,we will miss you Frank
Dawn and family-
I am so sorry for the loss that you are suffering. May the wonderful memories and cherished moments that you shared with your father help you through this difficult time.
We send are regrets for your lost,Godbless you and your family. We love you and yours.We’ll try to attend the funeral service if can get a flight on short notice.
To the Almeida Family I offer my sincere condolences and pray that you will find comfort and hope in the promises found in the Bible at Psalms 37:29 and at
John 5:28,29. Your love and special memories will keep him in your hearts forever.
Nicky – I am so very sorry to hear about your dad. You and your family are in my prayers.
Chrissy : So sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts.
Chrissy, I wish to offer my condolences to you and your family. I remember seeing him at the restaurant several times. It’s hard to lose a dad, they are so special. Thank God that you had him in your life but keep in mind that he is still with you, watching over you and guiding you.
Carol,
I am so sorry for the loss of your father. I know how close you were with him. Take comfort that he is with our lord now looking over you and your beautiful family.
Chrissy no words can say how sorry I am for the loss of your dad. My prayers are with you and your family. He will forever be in your heart. Love you.
It’s been a long time since I have seen many of you, but I just wanted to let you know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Tommy will forever be in my memory as the Handsome Uncle Tommy who made me laugh everytime he was visiting his sister, MaryAnn. A kind, gentle, wonderful person whom I know everyone will miss but will never forget!
Frank, you will always be in my heart. I can’t even describe how much I miss you. We spent many years together. I will never forget you. Love you.