Amanda Kathleen Cartier, 22, of North Haven, passed away suddenly on March 19, 2013. Adored by her family and friends, she was the daughter of Deborah and Anthony Cartier, sister of Sarah, granddaughter of Anne and the late Anthony G. Teodosio Sr. of West Haven, and Robert and the late Giselda T. Cartier of West Haven. She is also survived by numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, and a loving boyfriend, John Bonini of Wallingford. Amanda was born on May 24, 1990, and raised in North Haven, CT. She was involved in many extra-curricular activities. She was an altar server with St. Barnabas Church for eleven years; a dancer at Gloria Jean’s Dance Studio for ten; a talented clarinet player and a member of her high school marching band. She was also a stellar student, with accolades that include an induction into the National Honor Society, and CAPT Scholor. She was also a member of the Key Club, VOAG Club, and Future Farmers of America. In 2012, Amanda graduated from The University of Connecticut with degrees in Biological Science and Philosophy. She was a member of the Pre-Dental Society, The UConn Liberal Arts Community, Women in Math, Science, and Engineering, where she coordinated many events, and manager of HuskyTech. She also volunteered with the Mission of Mercy Club, which provided free dental care for those less fortunate. In pursuit of her dream of becoming a dentist, she attended dental classes at Central Connecticut State University while working for Apollonia Dental in Middletown. Amanda also spent many days with her family dentist, Lizbeth Steen DMD, at her Hamden office shadowing her as she moved on to college. Liz was more than a dentist. She was a true family friend and a mentor to Amanda. Amanda was a very humble, caring, gentle, and affectionate person. She looked forward to spending time with her friends and family, loved gardening as well as being outside, taking hikes, and bird watching. Amanda went on many trips with her family since she was a child, creating cherished memories. While she enjoyed being active, she also found pleasure in quieter activities as well. She was an avid reader and enjoyed time alone with her music and her cat, Ollie. She is a beloved member of the Teodosio, Cartier, and Bonini families. Her gentle smile, contagious laugh, and kind nature will be forever missed.
Family and friends are invited to go directly to St. Barnabas Church, 44 Washington Avenue, North Haven at 10 o’clock on Wednesday, March 27, 2013 to attend a mass of Christian burial and are also invited to attend the committal services immediately following in All Saints Cemetery. The visiting hours will be on Tuesday March 26, 2013 from 4-8 pm at the North Haven Funeral Home, Washington Avenue. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the:
Amanda K. Cartier Memorial Scholarshipc/o People’s United Bank/Sarah Jayne
79 Washington Avenue, North Haven, CT 06473.
We are so sorry for the loss of Amanda. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this horrible time. May God’s blessings be with you.
Debby, Tony and Sarah, So deeply sorry for your devastating loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you now and always. May friends and family help get you through this difficult time.
Tony, Debbie, and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Amanda sounded like an amazing young lady with many accomplishments in her life already. She will truly be a very special angel watching over all of you. Please know that you are in my heart, thoughts, and prayers. May god send you the strength to help you through this most difficult time.
With sincerest sympathy,
Carole Nicoletti-Kish
To the Cartier Family,
Words can not express how deeply sorry we are for your loss. We hope that you can find the peace and strength to get through this very difficult time in your lives. Out thoughts and prayers are with you now and always. With Love and Deepest Sympathy.
Jennifer Worthington and family
Debbie, Tony and Sarah,
I am so sorry to hear of Amanda’s passing. May you all find peace in the happy memories that you all shared and with your family and friends. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Sending lots of love and hugs,
Barbara Rocheleau
“God needed you to teach his class” is the only thing that can bring me any comfort. This was originally a poem (last line written) from a boy who was very attached to hi s teacher… and when she died of cancer, he was very angry. He battled with God in his thoughts for a while and then he found some peace in thoughts that maybe God needed her more up in the heavens. Amanda is an angel now in heaven needed for her purity, kindness and determination. As a counselor for 11 years now, all of my students are special, however, once in a while there is a student with whom you cherish. For me, that was Amanda Kathleen Cartier and her whole family. Sarah Cartier stole my heart again….. xoxo And I am so proud of her. When ever you are ready to talk Sarah – I will be here for you <3
Amanda was such a lovely young woman. We are so sorry for your tragic loss.
Debbie and AJ, words cannot express feelings. A daughter so special has her place as an angel. We can all take comfort in knowing her wordly suffering is over as ours begin. Remember her always as an ambassador of good. My prayers as you get thru this difficult time. We love you.
Debbie and Tony words cannot express the sorrow that I feel for you..Amanda is in my prayers. My deepest sympathy….
Amanda you will be dearly missed forever, I know you now safe with Poppy and looking down over all of us. I love you. (Bri, D & Kayla)
Debbie,Tony and Sarah,
We are so saddened by the news of Amandas death. Our thoughts and prayers our with you.
I was Amanda’s 2nd cousin I loved the way she made me laugh
To The Cartier Family,
There simply are no words that can describe the level of emptiness and sorrow you are feeling at this moment in your lives. It is a time when we question and ask why, and there are no answers that make any sense. Having gone through such an inconceivable loss ourselves, we can only suggest to you that you stay close to each other as a family and trust that your daughter is in a beautiful place. You must be strong for each other. Please accept our deepest condolences.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.Amanda is an guardian angel,so you kept this in hearts: Angels are the guardians of hope and wonder,the keepers of magic and dreams.Where ever there is love,an angel is flying by.Your guardian angel knows you inside and out and loves you just the way you are. Angels keep it simple and always travel light.Remember to leave space in your relationships so the angels have room to play. Your guardian angel helps you find a place when you feel there is no place to go. When ever you feel lonely, a special angel drops in for tea. Angels are with you every step of the way and help you soar with amazing grace. After all, we are angels in training; all we have to do is spread our wings and fly.Love to all.
Dear Debbie, Tony and Sarah,
I cannot even begin to know the pain and sorrow you are going through. Amanda was one of the nicest girls I have had the pleasure of knowing. Just remember all the wonderful times you shared. I remember all the fun times we had during marching band at Lyman Hall. The kids were such a great bunch and us parents shared alot of good times in the pit crew thanks to our kids. Just please know that our deepest condolenses are with you all at this very hard time.
Sincerely,
The Aubrey Family
Rick, Sue, Garrick & Heather
Our deepest sympathy to your family with your unexpected loss. Our prayers our with you and you family
Debbie and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Amanda was a beautiful girl and she will be missed. May you find comfort in God’s loving embrace as you face the days ahead.
I was astonished to find out about Amanda. Unfortunately, I overheard the news from my sister, Amber, who had graduated from Lyman Hall with her. Although I didn’t know her personally, I could gather that she was a great, intelligent girl with many dreams. My heart goes out to her sister Sarah, who graduated with me two years ago. I will always remember the good times hanging out with you Sarah, and wish to still have contact with you. May your sister rest easy. <3
Deb, Tony & Sarah, I’m so very sorry for your devastating loss. Amanda will be in your hearts, Always. May you cherish all the wonderful memories you have of her & may they bring you comfort. She is resting in peace with the angels. Prayers & much love to all of you, Mary & Pete
Sending Love and Healing prayers for Peace. Your Amanda certainly lived life to it’s fullest and made you proud. She is a beautiful angel and will be forever by your side. Just turn to her and she will be there with a gentle answer and an easy smile. (I work with Aunt Kathy)
AJ, Debbie and Sarah, We are so sorry for your loss, Amanda was such a beautiful and accomplished girl, you should all be so proud of her. Your angel will be watching over you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you! XO
AJ and Debbie, my heart goes out to you as so does my prayers. My God be with you in your time of deep loss.
so sorry to hear about Amanda …are thought’s and prayer’s are with you .. Love Kim, Jack & Samantha Sperry
Tony and Family,
The loss of your beautiful daughter is simply unimaginable. As a father of four girls myself, I feel such deep sympathy for you. I am keeping you in my prayers. Praying the God will bring you comfort and peace.
To The Cartier Family, She’s a beautiful person, always positive and an angel among us all who has touched our lives in the most amazing way, no one will ever forget her as anything less than an angel. You will all be forever in our thoughts and prayers <3
Debbie, I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Tony,Debbie & Sarah, no words can take away your pain.We will pray for you and your Angel.
Deb, Toni and Sarah
I am deeply sorry for your loss. On earth we have too many Devils and God just needed another Angel in Heaven. I will keep you in my prayers that God will give you strength to endure this devastating loss.
Anthony and family,
Sorry we were unable to attend, our condolences are with you and your family. May Amanda rest in peace.
All our love always and forever.
I only met Amanda once, at the dentist office, but when I left she was the person I remembered. Her upbeat attitude and great smile made me feel welcomed and at ease. God speed, Amanda…
We are so sorry for you loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless you.
We are very sorry about your loss of Amanda. Our prayers are with all of you.