Carlyle P. Aveni, 97, of West Haven formerly of the Hill section of New Haven passed away peacefully on Wednesday, November 25, 2020 at the Veterans Administration Medical Center, West Haven. He was the beloved husband of 63 years to the late Mary A. Cavaliere Aveni.
Carlyle was born in Shelton on November 3, 1923 and was the youngest child of eight to the late Joseph Aveni and Maria Velecca Aveni Augustine. He served his country faithfully in the US Navy during WW II as a Gunner’s Mate 2nd Class on the USS Shelton; his ship was torpedoed and sunk, and for three days he drifted in the Pacific until being found. Carlyle earned his bachelor’s degree from the former Southern Connecticut State Teachers College, his master’s degree, and 6th year from the former New Haven Teachers College. He was a teacher for the Orange School System at the Racebrook School. In 1968, Carlyle established the Parkview Medical Recovery Center, New Haven which he owned and operated for 20 years until his retirement in 1988. He was one of the creators of the Blue Trails at West Rock. Carlyle was a member of the Masonic Lodge, Milford where he served as Past High Priest and Past President of the Garabaldi Club, he was a member of the Shriners, the Order of the Scottish Rite for 50 years and the Coastal Courtsman. Music and the arts were Carlyle’s world of passion, and he also enjoyed making his homemade wine. He was known as Dad, Popou and Uncle Carl. Beloved dad to his daughter Mary Ellen Ciccone and his late son-in-law Antonio Ciccone. Loving Popou to his granddaughter Stephanie (Kenny) Shelinsky, and grandson Caryle (Kristen) Ciccone and their children Jackson K. Shelinsky, Colton A. Ciccone and Isla N. Ciccone. Beloved uncle Carl to many nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews, and family friends. Predeceased by his sisters Rose Ronci, Bridget Inglese and brothers John, Anthony, Pat, Joseph, and Jimmy Aveni.
Private funeral services have been entrusted to The Havens Family, North Haven Funeral Home
I dearly loved Carlyle he was like a father to me so sorry for this loss. He was one of the funniest people I know and I loved our chats when we sat out on his daughter’s deck and he smoked his cigar and I would read to him. I would recite classic poetry together something that we both loved. I loved hearing him play the piano. He will be sadly missed by myself and my little dog.
Carlyle was very interesting and I love hearing him tell his stories. He would say did I tell you this and I would know that you did but I would say no tell me or sometimes I would say yes but you can tell me again I’d like hearing the story. Mary, Stephanie, Carlyle, and the rest of his beloved family my deepest condolences.
Rest In Peace he was a great father to u . And he had always had a smiled on his face. We will always remember him as a veteran and will share his great memories with Mary Ellen . My condolences goes out to her family.
He was an amazing man and love by so many. May he be at peace now. He will be missed.
Uncle Carl was my mentor since an early age. I remember his inviting me, when I was 12 years old to bring my telescope to his 6th grade class and teach the kids how it works. He played chess with me and he gave me science books to fuel my interest in my devoted studies. He was always there to offer sound advice on the course of my career. I was pleased to dedicate a book I wrote about science and magic to him. Our friendship only grew with time, much of which we spent together in the Adirondacks during the summer with our cousins.
Uncle Carl was a man who loved life and enjoyed sharing it with others. Lorraine and I were blessed to have spent quality time with him. Rest in peace, uncle. We will cherish our memories of you. Niece/Nephew Tony and Lorraine
You were loved, Uncle Carl, by Sal, your nephew. He loved sharing the love of music with you. His wife and kids enjoyed your sense of humor and your musical talent, also.
We will miss you uncle Carl. My mother used to tell me how you would come to see me take a bath as a baby you would bring a little frisbie pie with you. Now you will rejoin all of your family . RIP
Dear Uncle Carl, I will miss you, your smile and your sense of humor very much. I will always remember the story you would tell me about when my mother (Rose Marie aka Babe) was born. You were only 8 years old and you said the angels brought her to your house. She loved you so much! Now you are with her and auntie again.
My deepest condolences to Mary-Ellen and family. Uncle was dearly loved and will be greatly missed by all.
Love, Cousin Cyndi