Ciro S. Longobardi, Sr., 71, of Wallingford passed away unexpectedly on Monday, August 31, 2020 at Hartford Hospital. He was the beloved husband of 48 years to Patricia Migliaro Longobardi. Ciro was born in New Haven on August 21, 1949 and was the son of the late Ciro S. and Elisa Amore Longobardi. He earned a B.S. in Mathematics from the former Quinnipiac College and had a minor in Political Science. Ciro was co-owner and operator of his family’s former business, Fashion Care Dry Cleaners; he later became a Financial Advisor and was the owner/operator of C.L.A. Wealth Strategies, LLC of North Haven. Ciro was a member and trustee of the Wallingford Elks Lodge. He was an off-ice official for the Quinnipiac University Men’s & Women’s Hockey. Ciro was an avid golfer at Traditions Golf Course, was previously a chairman of the Tour de Cure for the American Diabetes Association, was a parishioner of Church of the Resurrection, Wallingford, was a political enthusiast and always loved to voice his viewpoints, but most of all he enjoyed being with his grandchildren and following their sports endeavors. Father of Maria (Jeffrey) Hague, Alicia (Salvatore) Giaimo and Ciro (Kristin) Longobardi. Grandfather of Theodore and Andrew Hague, Salvatore, Marco, and Gia Giaimo. Brother of Marie “Micki” Afeltra, Aniello “Neil” Longobardi and the late Marie Concetta Colavolpe and Vincent Longobardi. Brother-in-law of Mary and Jack Dell’Oro and Chris and Barbara Migliaro. Also survived by many nieces, nephews, and cousins that he loved very much. Predeceased by his brothers-in-law Salvatore Colavolpe, Nicholas Afeltra, and sisters-in-law Ann Marie and Joan Longobardi.
The visiting hours will be Friday, Sept. 4th from 4:00 to 8:00 PM at The Havens Family, North Haven Funeral Home, 36 Washington Avenue. Family and friends are invited to go directly to Church of the Resurrection, 115 Pond Hill Road, Wallingford on Saturday morning, Sept. 5th at 10:30 to attend a Mass of Christian burial. Interment will be private and at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, contributions in memory of Ciro S. Longobardi, Sr. may be made to the American Diabetes Association, 260 Cochituate Road, #200, Framingham, MA 01701 or online to gobobcats mens/womans ice hockey.
Bob and I LOVED Uncle Jerry so much. He always had a smile. Always had time for family. We were all so blessed to belong to this close knit family. He will be missed so much. Our hearts are so sad. Love and prayers to Auntie Patty, Maria and family , Alicia and family and Ciro and family ❤ 🙏
Dear Patty, Maria, Alicia, Ciro and all the grandkids. Sending prayer and much love to the whole family. I don’t think I ever called him Uncle Jerry…. from the beginning he has always been “Unc” to me. We grew up pretty much as brother and sister on Wooster St. Grandma used to say that he would get the “swat” instead of me if we got in trouble. I pray he knows that even through the years I have always loved him. I pray that the whole family in Heaven has welcomed him with open arms… most especially Grandma and Grandpa ( I keep thinking he has finally seen his Dad). All my prayers for strength and peace go out to all of you. With Love, Ann and Jimmy too
Dear Patty and Family,
We are so sad to hear of Jerry’s passing. We can’t imagine the loss you are all feeling. Know that we are all thinking of you and praying that you will find peace in the loving memories you made together. I always remember him smiling and happy. He was a such a great person. I’m sure he is watching over all of you.
God Bless you all,
Cousins Cindy & Tony Carbone
To great a great person who was family, friend , and best buddy. The tears are heavy in Dani and my eyes are hearts have a void in them since you left earth. But I think I hear a sax and a piano playing piano man and heart break hotel in the heavens above in the sky. Until me meet again we both love you and miss you terribly. R.I.P. Ciro. Dani & John ( J.P. )
Dear Alicia & Family,
Heartfelt sympathy upon the loss of your beloved Father.
Be assured of my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
John Bossidy
Met Ciro around 12 Years ago when the new Quinnipiac sports center opened . Worked side-by-side with him at ice level as an off ice official for hundreds of Quinnipiac men and women’s hockey games. Above all I will remember him always as being a “real good guy” RIP Jerry. john weir
Auntie Patty, Maria, Alicia and Ciro,
I still can’t really believe that Uncle Jerry is gone
His passing will leave a terrific void in our family and especially yours! I know you all know how wonderful he was but we just want to express how much he was loved and appreciated for all his kindness He showed all of us through out the years! We will be always grateful for the that he spent helping take care of my Mom and Dad the last several years before they passed. I have amazing memories of all our family picnics and holiday gatherings especially the last picnic at your house 5 years ago after I had been in North Dakota and missed so many family get togethers! I was lucky enough to have had my moms brothers and sister to my children’s weddings! Pictures I will treasure!
His hugs were epic and you always knew you were loved!! We will miss you Uncle Jerry but will hang on to those amazing Family memories that you were so much apart of! Love you all❤️❤️❤️❤️
Elisa, Jay and family
Patty and family, we are so sorry for your loss. You and Jerry had a very special love. Both of you were such good parents and grandparents. Jerry always smiled and showed respect to all. Now he his watching over you and the wonderful family you created. May he Rest In Peace. My sister Rose also sends her condolences. With love and prayers, Frank and Edwina O’Neill
So very sorry to learn of Jerry’s passing. Such a wonderful man and family. Condolences to the Longobardi family
Ciro, “Chiro”, Jerry, Jer, Uncle Jerry… You were a son, brother, husband, father, grandfather, uncle, friend, advisor, counselor and mediator. You excelled in all those roles and many more not mentioned here. You will be sorely missed by the many people you touched and enriched throughout your life including myself. No matter what was going on with you or the world around you, without fail, you always had a smile on your face and a laugh on your lips. A beautiful human being without question. There is however one thing that you will never be….forgotten.
Patty and family
Jack and I are so very sorry for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all. Heaven has gained a new Angel who will watch over you and your Family and will always be in your hearts forever. May he RIP.
Dear Patty and family,
So very very sorry for your loss. Jerry always had such a wonderful warm personality. He always had a smile for everyone.
Ed enjoyed his time interacting with Jerry while coaching your son. And he’ll always remember the special friendship Jerry and Tom Silengo shared. As former classmates of Jerry we are so sad.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.
With sympathy, Ed and Susan Pepe
Dear Patty and family, the Longobardi . Migliaro and Dell’Oro families,
I am so very sorry to hear of Jerry’s passing. Please accept my sincerest sympathy and condolences. I am not at a loss for words in most cases, however, when I read Jerry’s obituary last night I was shocked! You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Patty, you have a loving family and many wonderful friends to help you at this difficult time. Love and Hugs, Katie
Very sorry for you loss. My condolences to the Longobardi family. Sincerely, Ralph Crouch
Dear Patty and family, we are deeply saddened by the passing a wonderful man and a gentleman, he was one in a million. Jerry always had a kind word to say about someone, he was and still a class act. I remember the wonderful time s on Wooster st. Our deepest sympathy to the entire family. Rest In Peace.
I know I speak for the entire Hague family in extending our condolences on the sad and untimely death of Jerry-husband, father, grandfather, friend!
You know, when you marry into an Italian family, you really marry the whole family-they are a closely-knit and very caring group. They love and support each other and cherish the times they spend together on special occasions and celebrations in each others lives. When Jeff and Maria were married we were welcomed into this loving group and therefore; I feel we got to know Jerry and Patti and the rest of the family very well, as we were often in their company.
I just recently realized Jeff has something in common with his father in law. Jeff was the youngest of children in our family and completely adored by his older siblings. Jerry was also the youngest , and completely adored by the older ones. Both were the “baby brothers”.
Jerry was a great husband, father, and especially grandfather. When the twins were born I offered to babysit each day while Jeff and Maria were at work. After about a week I heard that Jerry was rearranging his work schedule, so that he could come and babysit 2 days a week! And I would do 3 days; and so it went-for as long as needed.
I was so impressed at his love and generosity! This was unheard of – never to my knowledge had a grandfather ever do ne this! And an Italian one at that! (legend has it that Italian men don’t do any “woman’s work”). All today’s young fathers have broken tradition and are very involved with their children, even as infants-and that’s a good thing! But there are none like Jerry!
He and Patty have always been involved with all their grandchildren – attending all their games and other special events. He was close to them all and they will all miss him terribly, I know. But thanks to the kind of person he was they can rejoice in so very many happy memories, (as can we all).
He was truly one of a kind. He was unique!
Jerry immediately made all of feel very welcome and part of the family. He always had a smile on his face and a good story to tell us to make us laugh. We all were shocked to hear of his passing and are deeply saddened. It will always bring a smile to our faces when we think of him and all the fond memories and joy he bought to our lives and others.
Sincerely,
Mary, Taylor, and Christopher Hague (The other cool Hague family)
Patty – We are so sorry for you & your family for your loss.
Rhino & Donna
Patty their are no words to express our deep sarrow we feel for the loss of Jerry. Jerry was the nicest most loving person. He would do anything for the people he loved especially you and his family. We will miss him deeply. All our love to you and your family . With our Deepest Sympathy Carol & Joe
To the Longobardi family,
It has been an honor to have known Mr. Longobardi. We can only say that having shared so many years of wonderful gatherings with the Giaimo family, has left us with great memories. Specially the last few Christmas Day dinners where we shared great conversations. Our deepest condolences go to the Longobardi family: Mrs. Patty Longobardi, Maria H., Alicia G, Ciro L and his Grand children. May the Lord receive a new Angel with open arms.
God Bless
The Lopez Family
Pete, Joanna and Nathen
Patty & Family,
We are so sorry to hear of Jerry’s passing. In the short time that we had to get to know him, we always enjoyed being in his company. Always easy going and a pleasure to talk to.
We offer our deepest condolences to you and your family.
Susan & Dan Gedrim
Alicia, Family & Friends,
My deepest condolences on the sudden loss of a father, husband, son, uncle, nephew and friend. I know from experience there is not one word that can ease the pain and heartbreak you all have been enduring. The pain will remain always but in time will ease but He will never be forgotten. In time allow your broken hearts to recapture all the memories that have been made and shared with him. Though He may not physically be present in your lives, He will FOREVER be in your THOUGHTS, HEARTS and ALWAYS looking over you as an angel from up above.
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you…wishing you HOPE in the midst of sorrow, COMFORT in the midst of pain.
Much love to you all,
Donna
This line was from a poem that I embraced when I lost my dad and still holds true to my heart
…”A golden heart stopped beating, hard working hands at rest. God broke your hearts to prove to you, He only takes the best.” Rest easy and pain free.
Dear Patty and Family
I am so saddened to hear of the loss of your husband Jerry.
He had such a contagious smile and laughter that touched the hearts of anyone he met. He will truly be missed by all.
My thoughts and prayers r with u and your family during these trying times. May the wonderful memories u shared help bring u some peace and comfort As time goes by.
Rest In Peace
Lucille
So very sorry to learn of Jerry’s passing. Jerry and I worked together for a few years in Darien, CT. He was such a wonderful man who loved and adored his family very much. My condolences to Patty and the rest of the Longobardi family.
Dear Longobardi Family,
My heart goes out to you after this sudden loss. I have many fond memories of Mr. Longobardi, and I will always remember him as happy, full of love, compassion, and always wearing a big smile on his face. May God wrap his arms around the entire family and give you peace. I love you all and am so blessed to have known Mr. Longobardi. With prayers and sympathy, Meg xoxo