Gaetano Robert “Bob” Raccio, 80, of Florida, formerly of Guilford, CT, passed away peacefully on Sunday, February 4, 2024, with his loving family by his side. He was the beloved husband of 55 years to Marie (Varrecchia) Raccio. Gaetano was born in New Haven, Connecticut on February 2, 1944. He was the son of the late Gaetano and Concetta (Ferrucci) Raccio. Bob will be tremendously missed as a husband, father, father-in-law, grandfather, brother-in-law, and uncle. He is survived by his daughter, Dina and son-in-law Edward Gomez. He is also survived by his three grandchildren, Ava, Kayla, and, Kyle Gomez, and his four legged side kick, Max. He was predeceased by his brother Peter Raccio, and sisters, Rose Massaro, and Angie Rosello. He is survived by his sister Margaret Mineo, sister-in-law Ida Cirillo, and many nieces, great nieces, nephews, and great nephews, and friends. Bob worked for the United Illuminating Company for 35 years where he started in the meter department and held various positions throughout his employment. In his younger years he was an avid tennis player. Throughout his life he was a devoted Boston Bruins and New York Yankees fan. When he moved to Florida he became a Tampa Bay Rays fan along with his son-in-law. He enjoyed taking trips to visit National Parks and casinos throughout our country. The casino buffets were a favorite pass time for him and of course, he enjoyed being first in the buffet line. In his Florida retirement years, Bob loved to ride his “tricycle”, with his headlights on, ringing his bike’s bell, in the cul-de-sac with his youngest granddaughter and his four-legged side kick, Max.
The visiting hours will be held on Tuesday, February 13, 2024 from 4:00 to 7:00 pm at The Havens Family North Haven Funeral Home, 36 Washington Avenue, North Haven. Family and friends are invited to The Havens Family North Haven Funeral Home Wednesday morning, February 14, 2023 at 9:00 am, February 14, 2024, and follow in procession St. Elizabeth of the Trinity Parish at St. Therese Church, 555 Middletown Avenue, North Haven at 10:00 for a celebration of a Mass of Christian burial .Interment will directly follow mass at All Saints Cemetery, Middletown Avenue, North Haven. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations, in Bob’s name, be made to either St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital or ASPCA.
Our deepest condolences to you and your family during this most difficult time. May he rest in eternal peace forever ♥️
Sending our love to you and your family
Glenn and Stacy Higney
I got to spend some time with Bob and his wife Marie while visiting with his family in Florida and found him to be a very kind and gracious man with a great sense of humor.
With Love my sincerest condolences ❤️🙏
This is a moment I wish would have never happened for any of you. Billy & I loved “What about Bob” so much. We have blessed to be a part of your family over the years and honored to have been included in countless birthdays, holidays and the birth of our Ava “Monkey” when she came into this world and to have seen the expression on his face when his granddaughter was born was priceless. He was so incredibly proud of you Dina. I know he was a pillar of strength, a source of guidance, and a symbol of unconditional love to all of you. His presence provided you a sense of security and stability, making this loss all the more difficult to bear. There is just nothing anyone can say or do to make this less painful or difficult for any of you. Bob was one of kind, he was funny, and he had so many GREAT one liners and that smile was so loving and devious at the same time, depending on the moment, but it was never bigger than when he was with you all. His loss is going to impact you in so many ways, but only because he was such an amazing man. Eddie you were the son he never had, and I know he knew Dina, Ava & ReRe would be OK, because you had them and that gave him peace because honestly that was ALWAYS his main concern, his 3 girls. You have so many memories and one day all those happy moments will out-weight the grief and pain you are feeling now. I could go on and on, but I won’t because honestly there aren’t enough words to describe the man “What about Bob” was and nothing can be said or done to fill the emptiness left by his passing. We love you all and we are and will continue to be here for you.
Dina, Eddie and Ava. Losing a parent/grandfather is an unimaginable pain. Please remember that you’re not alone in your grief. Lean on the love and support of friends and family as you navigate through this very difficult journey. Bob’s spirit will forever shine through all of you, and his legacy of kindness and love will continue to inspire you all. Please know that I’m here for you and I am holding you all close in my thoughts as you navigate through this very painful time.
Marie, My heart aches for you as you navigate this unimaginable loss. Your husband’s impact on your life is immeasurable, and his memory will continue to shine brightly. May you find comfort in the shared memories, and may Bob’s love continue to guide you in the days ahead.
With love, thoughts and prayers
Love Gigi
When my aunt marie married bob and we met him he was always such a great guy. He was the perfect person for my aunt marie and,
wonderful family man he loved his family more than life its self. I personally thought. Of
Bob.as a fun and happy person and a real gentleman. I always loved bobby and was glad he is part of our family. Bob will be gratefully missed. Rest in peace.
Love susie and Andy Varrecchia
It is never easy to loose one so close!! Was not fortunate enough to meet Bob but have meet the family and that says it all!! Rest In Peace!!❤️
Bob G
We are so sorry for your loss. Your hearts must be breaking but continue your Dad’s legacy with remembering happier times and keep those memories alive. Much sympathy and love to all ❤️
Rip uncle bobby you will be miss so much
Rip uncle bobby we will miss you and love you to we meet again
Hello Raccio family. I met Gaetano and Marie 15 years ago during the wedding of my nephew Edward and his wonderful wife Dina. My first impression of “Bob” was “what a great guy he is. Over the next few years we became closer when he moved to South Florida. My wife Betty and I really enjoyed his friendship and most of all his great sense of humor . He was a great father, grandfather, husband and friend. I will miss him and his good jokes. We will see you in heaven. Our prayers are with you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
John and Betty Gomez
Thinking of all of you during this difficult time. Losing someone you love is never easy. Praying you are comforted with many happy memories. Uncle Bob, you’ll never be forgotten and will always be in our hearts. ❤️