Harry “Swede” Massini, Jr., 74, of North Haven, passed away peacefully on Saturday, July 15, 2017 at his home with his family by his side. He was the beloved husband of 21 years to Marilyn Bochan Massini. Harry was born in New Haven on February 6, 1943 and was the son of the late Harry and Olga Johnson Massini, Sr. He served his country faithfully in the US Army during the Vietnam era. Harry had worked as a New Haven Fire Fighter for 28 years retiring in 1997 and was a self-employed draftsman for over 20 years. He was a member of the West Haven Elks Club for over 25 years. Father of Jennifer Massini O’Hara, Jody Massini and Jeryl Massini Ryan (Michael). Step father of David (Dana) Bochan and Suzanne (David) Moslow. Loving grandfather of Sean Patrick O’Hara, Amanda Lee Moslow, Drew and Sarah Bochan. Loving great grandfather of Aria Grace Aczenzia. Brother of Lorraine (Peter) Posack and Richard Massini. He also leaves an additional seven grandchildren, many relatives and friends.
Private funeral services were conducted under the direction of the North Haven Funeral Home, 36 Washington Avenue. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the CT Hospice, 100 Double Beach Road, Branford, CT 06405 or the Closer to Free Fund, PO Box 1849. New Haven, CT 06508, which jointly supports Smilow Cancer Hospital at Yale New Haven and Yale Cancer Center.
Harry was a boyhood friend in the Montowese district of Norh Haven. He was always very respectful of my Mom, Dad and myself.
Though I lost touch with him over the years thoughts often drifted back to my youth and the kids I played with.
I remember one year, when we were Scouts, we camped over the weekend in a camp center monitored by adults. There must have been fifty kids. As a young lad, Harry watched over me.
Thank you Harry and may God Bless you.
Most Sincerely,
Tony Mancini
It had been so good to connect back with Harry after all these years, we have Ron Obier to thank for that. I was so sorry to hear that Harry had go through all that pain and suffering. My family and I wish you all the best during your time of grief and though we have only talked briefly feel free to contact us for anything you may need. I’ll always treasure the time we shared.
Glenn Scovil and family
Pop Pop, you are truly my hero. A hero to me, my mother and our family. You cared so much about us and have done so much for this family. You are a man of dignity, class and respect. Your values have been instilled in me, which I will instill in my children.
I love you pop pop, so much. And I miss you.
Love, Sean
My hero’s have always been cowboys, this was made for Harry,always liked country and western. Always a gentlemen and a great guy.I was from north haven and also on the fire dept. with Harry, in the same firehouse. Lots of laughs and a true gentlemen. My condolences to his family and God bless.
Prayer sent to the Massini family. Thank you Harry for your kindness. Rest in peace.
Dear Marilyn and the Massini Family, I can only offer my most sincere condolences on the loss of your loved one.
Our friendship spanned over 65 years and although we were many miles apart, we learned to use the internet, so we could again share and enjoy those memories, of that carefree time so long ago.
He will be missed by so many.
Sincerely
Ron Obier
PopPop,
I know you can’t see this and that’s ok one day I’ll car be able to tell you about what I wrote when I see you again! Your were my grandmas best friend and soulmate and my grandfather whom I’m going to miss dearly and so is gram. We miss you so much already and you will always hold a huge spot in all our hearts! Aria FaceTimed me on Tuesday and asked where PopPop was and could care less about all of us! Please watch over her and be with her every step of her life! Until we meet again I love you so much rest easy mr trulittle and doolittle 💜
We are so sorry about the loss of Mr. Massini. I’ve known Mr. Massini for many years and it was always a pleasure to see him. We enjoyed coffee or lunch together on several occasions. He and Mrs. Massini are very dear to us. Our heartfelt condolences to her and their children and grandchildren. May the Lord bless and keep him forever. and ease the ache in all our hearts.
So sorry for your loss. I was blessed to have him as my friend.I have many years of memories of all of us having great times going to Country Music dances.My deepest sympathy.He will always be in my heart.Love you Harry ,Rest in peace. Bouncing Patricia.
He was a friend at North Haven High, so sorry for your loss, may he rest in peace.
Sorry for your loss………Harry & I went to high school together & summer school !! RIP Harry