James T. Alling, 69, of Northford, formerly of Waterford, passed away peacefully on Thursday, June 1st, 2023, at Yale New Haven Hospital with his family by his side. He was the beloved husband of Mary E. Andersen Alling. James was born in New London on October 7, 1953, and was the son of the late Ward T. Alling II and Barbara Jones Alling. He worked as a Cost of Care Provider Associate for Anthem until his retirement. James earned an MBA from Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute, Hartford, was an Eagle Scout and a member of the First United Methodist Church of Meriden. Father of Peter (Christina) Maisano, Anthony (Shannon) Maisano, Scott C. Alling, Benjamin J. (Jamie) Alling and Tiffany Marie Alling. Beloved grandfather of Haley and Bradley Alling, Nathan and Camille Maisano. Brother of Ernest Alling and the late Janet Alling, Ward Alling III and Carol (Paul) Losacano Brother-in-law of Tom (Cate), David (Susan) and Donald (Eileen) Andersen. Also survived by several nieces and nephews.
Funeral Services will be conducted in the The Havens Family North Haven Funeral Home, 36 Washington Avenue Wednesday morning, June 7th at 10:00. Interment will follow in the Northford Cemetery. The visiting hours will be Tuesday, June 6th from 4 to 7 PM. Should friends desire memorial contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society, 825 Brook St., I-91 Tech Ctr. #3, Rocky Hill, CT 06067 or the American Heart Association, 5 Brookside Dr., Wallingford CT 06492
Prayers of Comfort and strength for Mary and all of Jim’s extended family. It was a pleasure and an honor to know Jim over the last years and to be able to join Jim and Mary for coffee on my perioodic visits to Connecticut. May you all remember the good memories and happy times that you shared with Jim over the years and feel comfort in the knowledge that he is free from all pain and suffering. While I am not able to be there with you in person, you are all in my heart and thoughts. With love, Judy
Dear Ben, Jamie, Haley and Bradley and the rest of your family,
Hold on to all of your memories that you all shared together. Ben, your a son that I know your Dad was very proud of. Your Dad is now Sharing eternal life with Jamie’s Dad now, too. God bless you. Love you all.