John M. Cacioli, Sr., 75, of North Haven, passed away peacefully on Saturday, July 15, 2017 at the VA Medical Center, West Haven with his family by his side. He was the beloved husband of 47 years to Judith Saban Cacioli. John was born in New Haven on April 12, 1942 and was the son of the late Gino and Pauline Loin Cacioli. He served his country faithfully in the US Army during the Vietnam era. John had worked as a Store Detective for the former Edward Malley Co., R.H. Macy & Co., and Burdines Dept. Store; later he joined the New Haven Police Department for 21 years retiring as a Sergeant. He enjoyed fishing, his frequent trips to the casino and was a Boston Red Sox fan. Father of John (Lisa) Cacioli, Jr. Grandfather of Isabella Cacioli. Brother of Frank (Pearl) Cacioli. Also survived by a nephew Conor Regan who was like a grandson to him and many other nieces and nephews. The family would like to extend a special “Thank You” to his caregiver Gene Wiggins and the VAMC for all their care and compassion.
Funeral services with military honors to follow will be conducted in the North Haven Funeral Home, 36 Washington Avenue, Wednesday evening at 7:00 with the Rev. Timothy Meehan officiating. Family and friends may call from 4:00 pm until time of service. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the VAMC, 950 Campbell Avenue, West Haven, CT 06516.
John was /is a great guy.As a rookie John was my sergeant and a pleasure to work with.He did not have a mean bone in his body or an attitude like many of the supervisors had.He was a real good asset when things got nasty.He will be missed and always will remember him.So very sorry for the loss to his family.
Heaven is filled with many good men, one more good man has been added. Frank I learned of your brothers illness a short while ago when you and I met by chance. I am very sorry for the loss of your brother which brings sadness to those who knew him. As brother officers in New Haven we strived to make New Haven safe for all. I will cherish the memories of working with your brother as I have with you. God bless you and your family.
Angelo NHPD Retired
John was a good friend to my husband, Elmer Belanger, aka Mr. Fence, during and after his employment at Cheshire Nursery and Garden Center, Cheshire, CT. They shared their love of fishing, military backgrounds and did a few fence shows together. John was a kind and thoughful person to others. Condolences to his family and loved ones.
Our deepest sympathy in the loss of your beloved John…he was a true gentleman and a kind kind person… Rest now John… Our heart goes out to Judy, John, Jr. and the rest of his family!!!
I had the privilege of working with John at Cheshire Nursery years ago. He was a wonderful man. He was a kind, genuine and caring friend to me. John was a very hard worker who enjoyed his job and took a lot of pride in the nursery. I had a lot of great talks with him…and a lot of laughs. I’ll never forget his smile. Rest in peace John. Prayers to his family.
So sorry for your loss. John was a great person and we will always remember him as part of our Alfa Romeo family.
So very sorry to hear about Johns passing. He was a beautiful person and a great cop. I wish we could be there to honor him in person but we are currently in Arizona to be with our daughter who is having some health problems at this time. All our love and prayers go out to John’s family and friends at this time. He will be greatly missed. He was really a gentle giant to us that knew him and worked with him. God Bless him and his wife and family. Rest in peace John. Jim and Joyce.
Bob and I are so blessed to have had John for a brother-in-law and friend, he has been there for us so many times with his strong help and kindness. He served his country and the New Haven as a officer, a brave, amazing man that he was. John you will be missed but not forgotten, you will remain in our hearts. Our hearts go out to my twin sister Judy her loving caring son John Michael, and Lisa, Isabella, and John’s brother Frank, Connor, all who have been close to John rest in peace John your battle is over.
We were blessed to have John and Judy as our neighbors in Old Lyme. I affectionately called John the Mayor of Boughton Road; he took the time to know his neighbors including the neighborhood dogs, for which there was always a treat. He was always looking out for his neighbors and helping when he could. His warm and generous spirit impacted us deeply, we only knew John for a few years, but it felt like we had known him all our lives. Our prayers are with you Judy and the whole family as you grieve John’s passing. We grieve with you and thank God we have the privilege of your friendship.
So sorry to learn of his passing. The best boss that I ever had. I was honored to have worked the midnight shift with him.
John was a dear friend all through high school and I used to book him and his band dances at the Broadway Fire House. His passing saddens me. He was a wonderful person.
John was a dear friend all through High School. John and Frank had a great band that I booked all the time for dances at the Broadway Fire House. I am saddened by his passing. He was a great guy.
Sorry to hear of Johns passing ,he was a good friend of mine in high school.
Frank;
I’ve only seen John twice since we retired but when we were on the job and when we were both on “B” squad we spent time together talking in the lounge. We became comfortable with each other to where we would share our privacvies with each other. Some times when something was bothering one of us we could unload on each other. He was a great person to be with and very caring. I’m saddened to know he’s passed. He was a good person and a good cop. My deepest sympathies to you and Johns’ family.
I cannot make a personal appearance due to health reasons. However John will always be in my heart and in my thoughts.
Bob Lillis