Mary C. Montano Palumbo, 88, a resident of North Haven for 59 years, passed away peacefully on Sunday, November 22, 2020 at Yale-New Haven Hospital. She was the beloved wife of the late Pasquale “Pat” Palumbo. Mary was born in New Haven on October 14, 1932 and was the daughter of the late Michael and Carolina Cecco Montano. A graduate of Nathan Hale School, St. Johns Commercial High School and Stones Business College, Mary had worked for Blue Cross/ Blue Shield for 22 years, first as an Administrative Assistant and later as an Executive Secretary to the Vice President until her retirement. Mary was a member of the Blue Horizon (a weekly get together for Blue Cross/Blue Shield retirees), was an avid shopper, always particular about her appearance (dressing to the “nines”), was a parishioner of St. Barnabas Church, most of all, she enjoyed her family who she loved unconditionally. Mother of Mark Palumbo (Kathleen Savage), Michele Palumbo Watras, Paul Palumbo (Andrea) and Patricia Carafeno (John). Grandmother of Mark Palumbo, Jr. (Amanda), Michele Brotz (Michael), Vincent Palumbo PhD (Caitlin), Michael Savage, Greg and Stephanie Watras, Michael and Anthony Palumbo, Christopher Carafeno, Sr. (Jessica), John Carafeno, Jr. (Alaina) and Eddie Carafeno. Great Grandmother of Mikayla and Aidan Brotz, Maggie and Carina Palumbo, Luca Anthony Watras, Brooke, Chase, Christopher, Jr., Patrick and Thea Carafeno. Also survived by her youngest sister Lucy Casale who Mary was blessed to have held a special loving bond with, they journeyed through life as best friends. Sister-in-law of Frances Palumbo. Also survived by many nieces, nephews, cousins, godchildren and many friends who have stayed in contact with Mary through the years. Predeceased by her brother Carmen Montano and a sister Caroline Giori.
Private funeral services have been entrusted to The Havens Family, North Haven Funeral Home, 36 Washington Avenue. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, PO Box 50, Memphis, TN 38101-9929.
Love you Mom ,kisses to Dad💜
I’m so sorry to see this – I remember Mary well from Blue Cross as I believe she was my father’s admin assistant for a period of time . She always had a warm greeting and hello. Sending you all good thoughts during these difficult days. Best – Kristin Holdt Pracitto (daughter of Richard Holdt)
Dear Trisha, John, Eddie, Chris (&Family), Johnny (& Family)
Our sincere and heartfelt condolences to you all for your loss!! Mary was a wonderful, warm & kind woman! She always had a smile on her face and we are grateful & blessed to have many fond memories of our great times together! We will keep you all in our thoughts & prayers! Sending you much love & hugs
To Paul,mark and sisters.sorry for the lose of your mom.she was a very nice lady.always enjoyed talking to her and your dad both at special events.she will be missed !!
Trish so sorry for your loss.You look a lot like her, God bless you and your family.🙏 Gail & Bob
Please accept my sincere condolences on your loss. I remember Mary from my days at Blue Cross.
I’ve thought of Pat and Mary many times over the decades and regret that I never reached out and made contact again.
Mary, thank you for opening your doors and heart to a stranger. I cherish the weekends that I spent with you and your family and speak about it often. Your unselfish kindness meant a lot. Say “Hello” to Pat for me.
Paul and Andrea, my deepest condolences.