Peter J. Votto, 41, of Wethersfield, formerly of North Haven, passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, November 8, 2017. Peter leaves behind a legacy filled with friends and family who love him deeply.
Peter was born in New Haven on December 23, 1975 and was the son of Carole Villano Votto and the late Philip J. Votto, Jr. He was the beloved husband of Maria Lisa D’Ascanio Votto. Maria Lisa and Peter are the loving parents of two beautiful children. Their sweet little two year old daughter, Gianna and one year old adorable little Peter “PJ.”
Peter was devoted to family. He enjoyed spending time with his Brother, Stephen Votto and Sister, Lisa Votto (Kevin Fitzsimmons), father and mother-in-law, Giovanni and Maria Teresa D’Ascanio, sister-in-laws, Angela Larabie (Marques) and Jessica D’Ascanio, nieces and nephews, Lauren and Sarah Votto, Adrianna and Domenic Larabie. Peter is also survived by many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends whom adored him. Peter was predeceased by his grandmother Annette Vegliante Villano, a woman he so deeply loved and honored.
Peter obtained his Bachelor’s degree from Curry College where he proudly served as The President of his graduating class in 1998. Peter was an accomplished businessman. His colleagues and employees valued and appreciated the work ethic, skills and kindness he brought as a leader. Peter’s most adored job was the one in which he worked beside his father, the man he cherished, at their family owned Pharmacy, Beirne’s of New Haven.
Peter’s presence lit the room with love, happiness and laughter no matter where he was. Peter’s charm glistened through his bright eyes, radiant smile and sense of humor. He lived life with passion. Some of these passions included golfing, The New York Yankees, sharp button down shirts and traveling, especially to the Caribbean with his wife. Peter loved his Italian heritage. Some of his favorite Italian delicacies were veal cutlets, red wine, cheese and espresso with a little splash of Sambuca. Peter adored the Christmas season. His extensive nutcracker collection was very proof of this. Peter truly cherished family time. This normally included weekend adventures for the kids followed by snuggling with his family on the couch, watching his favorite TV shows and sipping on diet Snapple.
Peter’s life and legacy will be carried on by the many who loved and cherished his kind eyes, warm heart and devotion to laughter and kindness to others. Peter’s family and friends are invited to go directly to Church of the Resurrection, 115 Pond Hill Road, Wallingford on Monday morning at 10:00 to attend a Mass of Christian burial and are also invited to attend the committal service immediately following in Rose Hill Memorial Park, Rocky Hill. The visiting hours will be Sunday from 3 to 6 pm at the North Haven Funeral Home, 36 Washington Avenue. In lieu of flowers, a contribution may be made to the Peter Votto Memorial Fund for the education of his children. Donations can be sent to Peter J. Votto Memorial Fund, 1077 Silas Deane Highway, PMB#107, Wethersfield, CT 06109. Or can be made online at www.gofundme.com/peter-votto-memorial-fund
our condolences go to your family. we are so sorry for your loss
prayers go your way.
Joe and Josephine D’Amato
So sorry to hear of Carol’s son Peter’s untimely death . Our prayers go out to the family. Peace
Gil and Carol Skidmore
I’m very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies to the entire Votto family.
So sorry May god bless his family and RIP
I’m so very sorry for your loss Steve! May you and your entire family find comfort and peace in his memory.
Lisa,
I can’t even begin to express my sadness for you and your family. Losing someone is never easy and when it’s unexpected can only leave you with so many unanswered questions. Please know that we are thinking of you and your family and praying for some sort of peace as you try and recover from this loss. It’s been to long since I’ve seen you, but if there is anything i might be able to do to help please let me know.
Lisa,
We are so sorry for your loss – we’re at a loss for words – can’t believe it. We send our deepest condolences to you, your family & Peter’s family. It will take some time to heal – you have a great family who love you & with their help will get you through this time.
This is such a shock and tragedy to the Votto family. My heartfelt condolences to Pete and his entire family during this difficult time.
Steve- So saddened to hear the news. My sincerest
and deepest sympathies to you and your families.
May your wonderful memories of him and yo
bond bring you comfort as you mourn. 🙏🏻
Hugs.
Steve – So so sorry for your loss, God Bless you and your family.
Dear Lisa and family. I can’t tell you how deeply sorry I am. I pray for strength for you during this very sad time. May he rest in Gods Grace and Peace.
You’ll be missed, it was always a pleasure seeing you and working with you at Nationstar. Miss u bro!
My heart goes out to the family At this most sorrowful time. May God strengthen you all and give you peace.
So sorry for your loss
Lisa and Family
Words cannot express my sorrow for you and your children. I will lite a candle at my Church (St John) tomorrow for you and your entire family.
Bob Barone……
Dear Lisa,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband. It sounds like he was an amazing man, husband and father. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Lisa,
I just wanted you to know I am thinking of you and your family. My prayers are sent your way.
I am terribly sorry for your loss. I went to college with peter. I am so saddened by this news and shocked at the same time. I am sending love, light and lots of hugs to you and yours.
My condolences to your family Pete ,you were the best . Your Bernie’s Pharmacy girls we cherish you we loved and respect you . You were kind friendly and your smile illuminate the pharmacy.Great human ,great boss. You will be miss. May God bless your family and give them the strength to be without you. May RIP my dear friend.
Steve, I’m so sorry to hear about your brother. I’ll be thinking of you and your family during this terrible time. Your brother sounds like he was an amazing person and I’m sure you know that he will be terribly missed. You have my prayers.
I am so sorry for your loss. Pete and Lisa were so helpful to my daughter, Jenna, when she moved into her condo several years ago. He was so kind and thoughtful and I know how much they were both appreciated. My heart goes out to Lisa and the family.
Steve, sorry to hear about your loss.
My condolences to your and your sister in laws family.
Lisa and family,
I’m so sorry for your lost. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
My heart goes out to Lisa and the family. So sorry for your loss.
So young So handsome Sooo sorry Lisa for your loss May God give you & family Strenth Prayers🙏
I was very heartbroken to hear the news of my friends passing!!! Sending the family my condolences and heartfelt prayers…
RIP Pete- til we meet again xo
Lisa,
So sorry to hear of your loss. May God grant you his peace and comfort during this difficult time.
May fond memories of Peter comfort you and may God heal you with his graces. We are heartbroken and praying for all of you.
I had the pleasure of working with Pete at an event for RBA. He spoke so fondly of his family. I am deeply sorry for your loss. My prayers are with all of you.
Dear Carole & Lisa, I am so sorry to hear of Peter’s death. He was way too young to go. Peter was my son Cameron’s childhood friend & classmate. They got into way too much mischief together at school but when the weekends came we were proud of their efforts on the hockey rink. We think fondly of Peter & send you our sympathy.
As a coworker of Peter’s at Tomra he’ll be sorely missed. I spoke to him daily at work and will miss his sense of humor. My deepest condolences to his family and friends.