Phyllis Valentino Sarsfield, 75, of East Haven, passed away peacefully on Monday, April 23, 2018 with her family by her side. She was the beloved wife of 55 years to Vincent J. Sarsfield, Jr. Phyllis was born in New Haven on December 20, 1942 and was the daughter of the late Clemente and Louise Piscitelli Valentino. She volunteered at the Momauguin Elementary School and enjoyed cooking for family and friends. Mother of Louise Lanouette, Donna (Robert) Quartiano, Vincent J. Sarsfield III and Marion Sarsfield. Grandmother of Anthony and Gina Quartiano, Donald Lanouette III and Gabriella Lanouette. Sister of Frances Mascola and the late Vincent and Carmine Valentino. Sister-in-law of Elizabeth Valentino and the late RoseAnn Valentino and Salvatore Mascola. Also survived by many nieces and nephews.
Her funeral procession will leave the North Haven Funeral Home, 36 Washington Avenue, Saturday morning at 8:45. A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated in Our Lady of Pompeii Church at 9:30. Interment will follow in All Saints Cemetery. The visiting hours will be Friday from 5 to 8 pm.
Love u auntie wee wee with all my heart
Rest with the angels Phyllis. You were a wonderful lady and I’m glad I got the chance to meet you. xo
Sincere confolences to the family. May she rest easy
Vinny….my profound sympathy. I am so sorry to hear about your beautiful sweetheart. To you and your children, Franny….im so so sorry. I remember Phyllis from when i was a child…….long time. May she rest in Gods peace forever. Love you! Xo
Dearest Donna and family I’m so very sorry for the loss of your Mom. I have many fond memories of her perming my hair in the kitchen!
Thoughts n prayers to you.💖
Dearest Donna and family I’m so very sorry for the loss of your Mom. I have many fond memories of getting my hair permed in her kitchen!!!,
Thoughts n prayers. 💖
My prayers are with all of you. She was a very nice person. She will be missed.
Sending a hug and condolences to my co-worker Louise and family.
To my auntie Wee Wee,
I will always remember you from the time I was in nursery school! You would walk me home from St Michael’s School almost everyday and hold my hand sooo tight, I remember you taking me for rides in your red and white Chevrolet, and how you gave me all of your 45’s!! I was the cool kid in 4th grade with that stack of records. Remember Del Shannon? And I loved that you always reminded me of how you acquired the name “Wee Wee”!!!
You will be missed, I am so sad.
Thank you for visiting my mom every week for nearly 5 years even though you knew she probably wasn’t aware. You told me that even though she may not know that you were visiting that YOU still knew her and had a lifetime of funny memories with my mom. That meant so much to Jean & me, you have no idea how we were so blessed to have you as our auntie Wee Wee.
I am so sorry Uncle Vinny, Louann, Donna, Marion, Vinny Jr and her precious grandkids.
I will see you later Wee Wee!
I Love You,
Betsy
Sorry to hear of your loss
Marion my condolences to you and your family. My prayers and thoughts are with you and may your Mom
rest in peace. God Bless
Mar, I’m so sorry about you mom. My thoughts are with you and your family
Dave
So sorry for your loss.
Adele and joe sicignano
Vin and Debi Masotta
Josephine Panico
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you, so very sorry.