Shirley Lacy Asid, 93, formerly of Frost Drive, North Haven passed away peacefully on Monday, July 31st, 2023 at Apple Rehab, Laurel Woods, East Haven. She was the beloved wife of 66 years to the late Edward P. Asid. Shirley was born in New Haven on February 15, 1930, and was the daughter of the late James and Helen Scherer Lacy. She had worked as a bank teller in the North Haven area for many years. Shirley was Past President of the St. Therese Church Ladies Guild, North Haven and President of the Montowese Elementary School PTA. She enjoyed making ceramics, even having a kiln in her basement, also enjoyed copper crafts and Theorum Stencil art. Mother of Mark E. (Susan) Asid, Marlene Asid and Deborah (Patrick) Sharron. Grandmother of Brian P. Asid, Hillary A. (Craig) Mitchell, Jonathan and Kevin Field. Step grandmother of Kira Markham, Michael Sharron, Dylan Asid and the late Brandy Wofford. Great-Grandmother of Zane Edward Mitchell. Also survived by several nieces and nephews. Predeceased by her sister Lorraine VanderWende. The family would like to extend a special thank you to all the nurses and staff at Apple Rehab Laurel Woods, especially her caregiver B.J., for all the excellent comfort and care they provided.
The visiting hours will be Friday morning, August 4th from 10:00 AM to 12:00 PM at The Havens Family North Haven Funeral Home, 36 Washington Avenue. A Catholic Service will be conducted in the parlor at 12:00. Interment will follow in All Saints Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Alzheimer’s Association, 200 Executive Blvd., Ste. 4B, Southington, CT 06489.
I will miss my dear Aunt Shirley, she was a wonderful lady and my Godmother. She was a big part of my life and I will never forget her or the many memories I have.
Love your Goddaughter, Laurie
Deb: Dean and I were sorry to learn of your Mother’s passing. Her life was long and filled with love. She was blessed with wonderful children who took care of her to the end. She will always be in your heart.
God Bless
Dean and Debbie Markham
I am so sorry to hear about Shirley’s passing. Shirley was a sweet & fun lady. I imagine she will be missed by many. Hugs & prayers go out to all her family & friends❤️
Your mom will always have a place in my heart. I always remember the time we spent together.
Love always,
Gina Chinn
So sorry to hear of your mother’s passing. So many memories of your mom and dad at Lake Sebago.
God Bless
Mike & Barb Rajcula
Mark, Marlene, Debbie, I was sad to hear of your Mom’s departure. She was such a genuine, caring, and above all FUN person to have known. I will always remember the summer nights with her laughing it up with my aunt next door. I’m so glad they had each other and I am honored to have had that role model of friendship.
Memories, thoughts, and prayers – Brian McM
Deepest sympathy Mark, Marlene and Debbie.
Your mom was such a sweet person. Our prayers
are with you all.
Lynn and Doug McCall
Debbie Marlene and Mark we’re so sorry to hear about your mother passing you are in our thoughts and prayers Maud Gelati and Charlie Gravino