Thomas F. Cacace, 76, of North Haven, passed away peacefully after a brief illness on Sunday, January 30th, 2022, at Yale New Haven Hospital with his family by his side. He was the beloved husband of 51 years to Diane Flynn Cacace. Tom was born in New Haven on July 9, 1945, and was the son of Vincent and Julia (DelGaudio) Cacace. He graduated from Eli Whitney School, Class of 1963. Tom managed his family’s business, the former Betty’s Market, in Morris Cove and was a master carpenter and contractor for over 50 years. He was an avid sports car, aviation and history enthusiast and had been an U.S. Army reservist.
Tom was loved by all and known especially for his true devotion to his family. In addition to his parents, Tom was predeceased by brother John Cacace of New Haven. He was the loving father of Heather Cacace Papa and her husband Richard and Melissa Cardito, both of Orange. Devoted Papa to his four cherished grandchildren Richard and Payton Papa, Christopher and Marin Cardito. Dear brother to Betty Ann Donegan of Branford, CT and Penny Cafferty of New Haven, CT. He is also survived by many nieces, nephews and friends.
The visiting hours will be Thursday, Feb. 3rd from 4:00 to 7:00 PM at The Havens Family, North Haven Funeral Home, 36 Washington Avenue with a service to be conducted at 7:00 PM. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, PO Box 50, Memphis, TN 38101-9929.
Dear Diane, Heather, Melissa and Families,
I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart is with you.
All love,
Laurie Trotta Valenti
Please accept my sincere condolences to the family. May he Rest In Peace.
Dear Cacace family. So sorry for your loss. Tommy was a great guy and was always happy and positive. When I use to go to Betty’s store he was always there to greet me and give me a nice smile. Tommy was always cheerfull and ready to talk to you and give you some time. He filled everyone’s life with hope and cheer. When he left Betty’s and started to do construction I was impressed with his craftsman ship and natural ability. I looked up to him and admired his kindness. Last time I saw him was when he visited my mom in New Haven. We had a great day talked and laughed and had some great food. He will surely be missed. Its comforting to know he is at peace and no longer in pain. May he rest in peace. God bless all of the family
To the Cacace Family,
Our deepest condolences to Diane, Heather ,Melissa and the family of Tommy.May you find strength
During this difficult time. May Tommy Rest is Peace . Michael and Lucia Carrano
Dear Diane and family, so very sad about Tommy’s passing. He was such a wonderful man, so kind caring and generous. I know how much he loved you and the girls. My heart is with you during this time of loss. MayGod give you peace knowing he is in heaven and with you always. With much love and sympathy
Nette
Our VCH, Veterans Coffee House meets monthly at the Wlfd Senior Center which not only gives our Vets the chance to socialize but also take part in enjoying a guest speaker which are related to military topics, slide presentations and Q&A. At this very difficult time, our group would like to honor the loss of Thomas Cacace as a fallen brother. Our military Veterans send out their heartfelt condolences to the Cacace family and friends. As an U.S. Army reservist Veteran, he had joined an elite group of honorable men and our Country will forever be in his debt.