Trifomina (Triffy) Lombardi-Mascia, 80, formerly of North Haven was called home by our Lord on Tuesday, April 11, 2017. She was the beloved wife of the late Samuel (Jr.) Mascia, Jr. Triffy was born in New Haven on August 20, 1936; daughter of the late Frank “Sonny” and Margaret Gargano Lombardi; had worked as a banquet manager at the former Ramada Inn of North Haven, where she spent many days and nights working with dear family and friends. Triffy also worked as a CNA for Montowese Healthcare, North Haven and private duty at Whitney Center of Hamden. The love that she had for her patients was undying. Our mother devoted herself to everyone who surrounded and needed her; She gave and had more than enough love to share with her family and friends she so loved. Triffy will always be remembered by her ability to always show kindness and appreciation, her magnetic personality drew you to her for she was an honest and genuine person, mother and friend. She retired early to care for her ailing husband Junior who passed away in 2002. Her only fault was that she never worried about not having enough time for herself. Triffy is survived by her beloved children, Clifford and spouse (Dietrich Lipp) Mascia. Daughters, Gina (Patrick) Butler, Margaret (Lorren) Bissell and Kimberly (Dana) Boughton. Her grandchildren (which were the apples of her eyes) granddaughters Kristina and Melissa Butler, Samantha Bissell, Alex Bissell and Dominic Boughton and a great grandson David Rioux. Besides her children and grandchildren, Triffy leaves behind a sister, Marie (Joseph) Benson and her twin brother Rocco (Diane) Lombardi, many nieces and nephews. Predeceased by brothers, Frank and Dominic Lombardi. Mom, your suffering is no longer; Please keep a watchful eye out for us, for we will all be together once more in the kingdom of our Lord, your loving family.
Her funeral procession will leave the North Haven Funeral Home, 36 Washington Avenue, Tuesday morning at 10:30. A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated in St. Barnabas Church at 11:00. Interment will follow in All Saints Cemetery. The visiting hours will be Monday from 4 to 8 pm. Should friends desire, memorial contributions may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association, 200 Executive Blvd. Suite 4B Southington, CT 06489.
I’m so very sorry to hear of the loss of Triffy. The memories I have of her and your wonderful family will be in my heart forever. Much love goes out to all of you during this very difficult time.
Dear Clif, I am so sad to hear of your mom’s passing. The ache in my heart and stomach are only soothed by the memories of the wonderful times we had on Bradley St. Your mom was a gem, so full of fun, a spectacular cook, so welcoming to the neighborhood scallawags, an amazing hostess, homemaker and mom. Her memory and the time I spent in your home will always be dear to me. I’m so sorry I won’t be able to make the service, I would really have loved to come and share memories and help shoulder your grief.
With much love and sympathy, Gin Gin (Virginia)
I’m so sorry to all her family and loved ones. Triffy always put her family first. She was the anchor that kept the boat steady. You could count on her to be there with a cup of coffee and some fantastic food. She was a ride or die kinda of woman, they don’t make em like that anymore. She lives on in her family for eternity.
I am so sorry to hear about Triffys passing Triffy was a special woman, wife, mother, grandmother and friend. Her door was always open to everyone I will always remember the Sunday get togethers on Bradley Street. We have so many good memories of both Triffy and Junior.
Rest in peace my friend
Love Angie and Joe
Triffy you are finally at peace with my brother. Words can’t express how much you will be missed. My heart was broken watching you suffer, and I know that Junior is smiling now that you are reunited once again.. So be at peace now Sis. You will live on in my heart forever. Until we meet again my love and prayers always. Give all the family a big kiss for me.
Cliff and family I am so sorry for your loss I met your mom on unusual circumstances but will always keep her in my prayers we were roommates at Milford health and rehab so glad you are at rest now triffy. With all my respect
Rip Triffy we were roomy’ for a few weeks cliff and family so sorry for your loss
I am so sorry for your lose. Your Mom was a good person.
Cliff, Gina, Margaret, and Kim—
Vic and I, plus my family, were sad to hear about your Mom. I have so many crazy, funny childhood memories of her that have always made me giggle over the years. I always remember her mustang and how she said she wanted to drive it around as an old lady and say &$&@:$/$@)&@ to all the young kids who would be envious of the car!! Triffy was a funny lady and I’ll always think of her fondly. I’m sure she’s looking down at all of you from that driver’s seat; just listen for that horn!
With Love…